It's taken me an incredibly long time to wrap my head around this too. Sometimes I find myself successfully doing it and it's made such a difference in my life 😊
Im 63 years old & few men of my generation talk about proper way to deal with feelings. I believe this results in alot of alcoholism. So great to see young men doing this. It really gives me hope for the human race if they learn to process feelings instead of repress them (and have them come out in worse ways)
No, relaxing is effort. Letting go means "accept whats happening, as if you have chosen it, then observe without identification with the unpleasant feelings". It's about creating a "distance" between your mind based "I" (thoughts/feelings) and the real "I" ( pure consciousness).
If you are doing this "SO THAT" the feeling will go away — that is resistance. "ALLOWING" means not hating the pain, and not wanting it to go away.. The feeling is present because it NEEDS you to feel it fully and understand what it is telling you. When you "get it" , it will have no further need to be present. The current-moment trigger is not the cause of the feeling, but is bringing to the surface something deeply buried in you that needs to be processed to its completion.. Teal Swan has some excellent videos on this subject.
I breath into that part of the body where I feel the emotion (eg belly) until it 'dissolves'.
It's taken me an incredibly long time to wrap my head around this too. Sometimes I find myself successfully doing it and it's made such a difference in my life 😊
Wonderfully explained. Thank you!
wow, practice denial about the meaning and never aquire a deeper, releasing meaning…boys, ya got it backward…good luck with that.
Great video
Im 63 years old & few men of my generation talk about proper way to deal with feelings. I believe this results in alot of alcoholism. So great to see young men doing this. It really gives me hope for the human race if they learn to process feelings instead of repress them (and have them come out in worse ways)
Awesome. Thanks.
Thank you for taking time out to help others. Thumbs up.
This might be the single most useful video on youtube ! Really
Good explanation.. Check out the Wonder Method if you would like more assistance. Alain is a great teacher too.
No, relaxing is effort. Letting go means "accept whats happening, as if you have chosen it, then observe without identification with the unpleasant feelings". It's about creating a "distance" between your mind based "I" (thoughts/feelings) and the real "I" ( pure consciousness).
If you are doing this "SO THAT" the feeling will go away — that is resistance. "ALLOWING" means not hating the pain, and not wanting it to go away.. The feeling is present because it NEEDS you to feel it fully and understand what it is telling you. When you "get it" , it will have no further need to be present. The current-moment trigger is not the cause of the feeling, but is bringing to the surface something deeply buried in you that needs to be processed to its completion..
Teal Swan has some excellent videos on this subject.
Thank you for this video.🙏
good. Yoga has taught me this also
Thank you very much
I would sleep through stomache pain
Feel it.
Know that it's not u
Your pure awareness
I love your subject… thank you excellent